College/ family?

My dad is an engineer with one BA and one Master engineer and other Master in business he work hard all his life to make sure his family had everything they need and want he always given me and my brother everythings even when we mess up big time he always there to help and care all he wanted is one of his children to have a college degree he never wanted anythings for his birthday, christmas or any hoilday he said he want one of his kid to graduated from college with a degree and since I have medical problem keep me from going to school but my brother who attended UCI My dad pay for everything (living, college, food he bring food for him make sure he have enought ) My brother always wanted to do things and then when he almost half done or almost become success he end up quiting that what I see Now he said he want to be a man and live in the real world he want to quit college and work go back to community college when My dad heared he didn't say much he just giving advice

College/ family?
Show a good example and try to encourage better long term goals