Sunday, August 22, 2010

College help?

I am 18 years old and a senior in high school. My boyfriend is almost 19 and a freshmen in college. All I want to do is be with him in the future...but I don't want to be hasty in my college decision making. My mother's biggest concern is that my boyfriend and I will break up and I will want to move back home. I don't want to go to the college my boyfriend attends, just one that is about 15 minutes away. I am considering other colleges but I want to go with my heart. I love my boyfriend so much and I just want to be with him. (My boyfriend wants me to be near him of course but isn't forcing me into choosing him, he wants what's best for me) What should I do?

College help?
Go with what your heart tells you, you can always have faith in that. Even if you get along great with your boyfriend, you do need to keep yourself in check when it comes to college too because if things dont work with him you will be stuck. You can always visit him on breaks or weekends as well, just be confident with what you want to do for YOURSELF. Hope this helps. Best wishes.
Reply:Follow your heart and go to the school you want. Alot happens during your university yers, and you will not know if he is the one until you experience this your way.
Reply:I think you are very smart to make decisions independent of your boyfriend. I know you want to be with him, but if you go to a college 15 minutes from his, you should be able to see him all the time. If your boyfriend truly wants what is right for you, he will support your decisions.


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