College/boyfriend?

My boyfriend is soon going to be 19, and works at a store called havertys. He graduated high school last year. He lives with his parents and has a younger brothe rand a older sister that is about 24 and does not attend college. I have been really been barking up his tree about him starting college... So last year, (at the end of the year) he applied for this college close to where we live. Well, he got accepted. So it has been a while and he had had everything done and ready to go. But all of a suddne he has decided that he does not want to go. I have argued with him for hours about this and I don't mean to be angry with him, but I am so confused...He is EXTREMLY smart, his GPA is aobut a 3.3 and he graduated with a college prep seal. He also knows four languages...How can someone so smart not want to go to college? I plan to go.I want him to go, bu tI cannot force him...How can I get hm to go..or at least get him to reconsider? any professional help? I really need it, what do I say?

College/boyfriend?
You can't force him to go to college. Maybe he just wants a break from school for a while. Lots of people take a year or two off and then start college later. If he doesn't want to go, there's not much you can do about it. Perhaps he's just not interested in what college has to offer. Give him time to figure out what he wants-- he's still young and has plenty of time left to go to college. If you really cared about him you'd let him make up his own mind and not try to force him to do what YOU want him to do.
Reply:This is a toughie! Im sure you are very frustrated and only want what is best for him. Dont force him into making decisions which is crucial for both of you. He is old enough to make his own decisions. Tell him that you will respect his decision and that you will understand. This way he is not under pressure. Maybe he can study by correspondence. Maybe he is just tired of always studying...Give him some air to breathe..hopefully he will make the right decision.. Good luck
Reply:You can't force him. He's an idiot for not going, but you can not make him do it. Break up with him. He's not interested in having a decent life, so move on and go to college yourself.

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